Is mismatched desire running your relationship?
You're not broken. You're not incompatible. But you might be stuck in a pattern that's quietly crowding out everything good between you. This free 6-day reset will show you why — and what to actually do about it.
The 6-Day Mismatched Desire Reset
If you've been together for years and love each other but sex has become something you manage, negotiate, or avoid — this is for you.
If one of you always seems to want more and the other never quite gets there.
If you've had the same circular argument about frequency so many times you've stopped having it.
If you're not sure whether this is fixable or whether this is just how it is now.
It doesn't have to be this way.
If any of this sounds familiar, you are in the right place.
What you'll get:
A clear picture of what's actually keeping you stuck — and what the path forward looks like
Six days of grounded, practical insight — no shame, no blame, no "just have more sex"
The clinical frameworks I use with clients — the Sex Clock, the Knot, the Dance — delivered in plain language
A name for what's been happening — and why it's not about how much you love each other
The Sex Clock
How both partners end up managing time instead of connecting — and what the clock is really saying
What's Inside:
What comes next
What the reset looks like — and how to keep the momentum going
The Knot
The shutdown response that gets in the way of desire — and how to start working with it
The Rejection
Why a no lands so hard and how to handle it better together.
The Dance
The patterns keeping both of you stuck — and how to step out of them.
Why you're both stuck
The mismatched desire dynamic explained — and why trying harder makes it worse
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6-Day Reset
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You don't need more advice about how to have more sex. You need someone who understands why it got complicated in the first place.
Dr. Lori Davis is a Doctor of Nursing Practice, board-certified Family Nurse Practitioner, and AASECT Certified Sex Counselor specializing in mismatched desire. She teaches sexuality counseling at the University of Michigan and has been featured in the New York Times, Oprah Daily, and Women's Health.
