The Blog

Most of what you've been told about sex in long-term relationships is incomplete. Here's what I actually see in my practice. No fluff. Just honest, insights to help you get unstuck.

Clinical perspectives on sex, desire, and long-term relationships.

Sex Medicine

Mismatched Desire

Relationship & Intimacy Skills

Somatics

The Dance: The Pattern That’s Killing Your Sex Life

Couple doing The Dance of Mismatched Desire

The Sex Clock: Are You Having Sex or Just Keeping Time?

Woman with low desire in a mismatched desire relationship monitoring the Sex Clock

Responsive Desire: Why You Don’t Want Sex Anymore

A woman wondering, "Why don't I want sex anymore?"

Mismatched Desire in Relationships: Explained

Dr. Lori Davis DNP FNP-C explaining mismatced desire

The Initiation Problem: The Root of Mismatched Desire

Couple with mismatched desire talking about how to initiate better

The Problem Everyone Gets Wrong About Mismatched Desire

Couple learning about mismatched desire

Better Sex Starts With Your Breath. Here’s Why.

Two people working towards better sex through breathing

Sex REALLY IS Kind of Disgusting (And That’s Totally Normal)

A woman feeling that sex is disgusting

The Knot: Why Your Body Shuts Down When Sex Comes Up

Woman feeling shut down when sex comes up because of the know

5 Intimacy Practices for Couples That Actually Work

Two people doing intimacy practices for couples

My Partner Never Wants Sex: Understanding Responsive Desire

Pensive man looking out window thinking about how his partner does not want to have sex

When Sex Feels Like a Chore: Reclaiming Pleasure as Self-Care

Woman considering sex as self care rather than sex is a chore