Sex & Relationship Counseling for Individuals and Couples
Pleasure and Intimacy matter.
Whether you're working through this alone or with your partner, I help you get out of the patterns that keep sex feeling like a chore, a fight, or something you're failing at—and into the kind of intimacy that feels alive.
What brings people to sex counseling
People come to me when:
If any of this resonates, you're not alone. And you're definitely not broken.
- Their desire has disappeared and they don't know why
- Sex has become painful or anxiety-inducing
- They're stuck in pursue-withdraw patterns with their partner
- One person wants sex constantly, the other never does
- They feel shame or disconnection around their sexuality
- Past trauma is affecting their present intimacy
- Their body doesn't respond the way it used to
- They're exhausted from fighting about frequency
If any of this resonates, you're not alone. And you're definitely not broken.
Enough is enough.
Sex problems need specific sex solutions
If you recognize yourself in any of those struggles, here's what you need to know: generic advice won't fix this.
You need someone who specializes in how nervous systems affect desire, how bodies respond to trauma, and how relationship patterns keep you stuck.
I work with:
The goal isn't to perform better. It's to feel present, connected, and alive in your sexuality.
You need someone who specializes in how nervous systems affect desire, how bodies respond to trauma, and how relationship patterns keep you stuck.
I work with:
- Your Body - Somatic tools to help you feel safe and present when your nervous system is stuck in shutdown or hypervigilance
- Your Relationship - Addressing pursue-withdraw cycles and the dynamics that keep you managing each other instead of meeting each other
- Your Reality - What actually works for your bodies, schedules, and histories—not some idealized version of desire
- My training: AASECT Certified Sex Counselor, Doctor of Nursing Practice (DNP), Somatic Experiencing Practitioner (SEP), Certified Relational Life Therapy Coach
The goal isn't to perform better. It's to feel present, connected, and alive in your sexuality.
You need better support.
With Holistic Support for Fierce Intimacy.
It’s time for your sex life to evolve!
Evidence-based care. Expert guidance. Compassionate presence.
You deserve the right support--right now--to help you create
an authentic, passionate, fiercely intimate relationship.
Individual & Relationship
Sex Counseling
Let's Talk!
I offer holistic sex and relationship counseling to help you overcome a wide range of sexual concerns.
- Low or inhibited desire or arousal
- Sexual pain
- Erectile difficulties
- Trouble with ejaculation
- Challenges with porn or erotica use
- Difficulty reaching orgasm
- Mismatched sexual desire in your relationship
- Anxiety or shame around sex
- Difficulty communicating your needs and desires
- Feeling disconnected from your body or pleasure
- Recovery from past sexual trauma or negative experiences
- Navigating intimacy after major life changes (e.g., childbirth, menopause, illness)
- Exploring or understanding your sexual identity
- And much more
You can trust me with your sex life.
I am Dr. Lori and I am obsessed with all things sex medicine, counseling, trauma, somatics and healing. Along the way I have collected quite a few credentials, but more importantly I have learned a lot about how to help folks like you - folks feeling stuck in their sex lives to find their way back to feeling tuned in and turned on again!
