The Blog

Most of what you've been told about sex in long-term relationships is incomplete. Here's what I actually see in my practice. No fluff. Just honest, insights to help you get unstuck.

Clinical perspectives on sex, desire, and long-term relationships.

Sex Medicine

Mismatched Desire

Relationship & Intimacy Skills

Somatics

The Knot: Why Your Body Shuts Down When Sex Comes Up

Woman feeling shut down when sex comes up because of the know

5 Intimacy Practices for Couples That Actually Work

Two people doing intimacy practices for couples

My Partner Never Wants Sex: Understanding Responsive Desire

Pensive man looking out window thinking about how his partner does not want to have sex

When Sex Feels Like a Chore: Reclaiming Pleasure as Self-Care

Woman considering sex as self care rather than sex is a chore

Why I Banned the Word “Sex” from My Sex Counseling Office

A couple after i banned the word sex

Why Does Sex Hurt After Menopause?

Woman learning why sex hurts after menopause